Mature Escorts and Their Rules
There are things that mature escorts allows, and the things that she doesn't allow. Be sure that her rules are within your own wants and desires. If they are not, the two of you are incompatible with each other, and you should both go your separate ways. Save your money and reserve it for a lady who will do the things you want.
One thing that you will find is that the mature escorts who allow more hardcore sex acts are the ones that tend to charge a lot, though there are exceptions to this. However, this still doesn't violate what I said in the last chapter. Paying a lot to a mature escort doesn't necessarily mean you're going to get the things that you want. In most cases, if you want to do something specific, something that most escorts won't allow, you must be willing to up your price.
One thing that separates elite hobbyists from novices is that they will spend a lot on an escort if they're sure that she will give them the things that they want. For example, if an elite hobbyist wants anal sex, he will be willing to pay the mature escort more if it is necessary, so long as she will allow anal sex. This leads me to the fifth rule of this article series, which is this:
Hobbyist Rule Number Five: When hiring a mature escort, particularly for the first time, do not rush into having sex with her too quickly. Instead, take a few minutes to talk to her to find out what she allows. Do not be shy about this! Tell her what you want and find out if she allows it. If she doesn't, raise your price. If the two of you can't agree on a fair price, terminate the session and reserve your money for an escort who is more compatible.
During the actual session, don't be afraid to experiment. If you've established the ground rules prior to the session, like I've advised you to do, then things should go smoothly. There is a lot of sex positions to try, and I would try them if I were you. When it comes to having sex with a mature escort, I believe there are two types of hobbyists, and these are the hobbyists who only care about their own pleasure, and the hobbyists that want to mutually pleasure both themselves and the escort.
If you fall under the second category, one thing that you will find is that many mature escorts love DATY, which is an acronym that stands for “dining at the Y.” It basically refers to licking her pussy. I personally like this, and I fall under the second category of hobbyist. I like to ensure that she gets as much pleasure out of the experience as I.
Another thing that can allow you to enjoy yourself more during the session is exercising, particularly cardio exercises. These types of exercises give you a large amount of stamina, which means you can fuck her for a longer period of time.
Additionally, strength exercises will allow you to increase the number of positions that you can try with your lady, since being stronger means that you can pick her up, and fuck her in a standing position while she wraps her arms around your neck.
In general, the more athletic you are, the better the sex will be, and you will feel like a stud when she is amazed by your strength and stamina. Drinking a large amount of water prior to the session can increase your cum shots, and apples are also excellent fruits for the hobbyist.
One technique that can allow you to enhance your sessions even more is to watch a lot of porn. By watching how porn stars perform, and the techniques they use, you can learn the tricks which can allow you to get more out of your sessions. Once the session is over, thank her for the time, and wish her well. If she has done a particularly good job, or even if she hasn't, consider posting a review of her online. Not only will you benefit her, but you will help other hobbyists in their quest to find a good provider.