Premature Ejaculation: Great for Escorts, Bad for Hobbyists
I'm fairly certain that HER is the first and only escort review site on the web which addresses the issue of premature ejaculation in detail. It is a topic that is very touchy and sensitive, and statistics show that at least 25 to 40% of adult men have problems with it. Many of these men are hobbyists, and the one thing that no one can deny is that premature ejaculation can ruin your session. Another more brutal term for it is "The One Minute Man." Premature ejaculation is great for escorts for obvious reasons.
When you cum within the first two minutes of sex, you've just paid hundreds or perhaps thousands of dollars for only two minutes of pleasure. Think about it. I don't think any profession in the world allows you to make money faster than the escort business. While few escorts would ever admit it, deep down inside many are pleased when it happens. She has made a bundle of cash in only two minutes, and now, if you're like many men, you won't be able to go for round two. Whats more, depending on the time it took you to cum, you may not have enough time for round two.
There are a number of powerful methods you can use to overcome premature ejaculation. First, it is important to realize that the causes for premature ejaculation can be broken down into two categories, and these are physical causes and psychological causes.
Psychological Causes
When a hobbyist meets an escort, especially for the first time, he tends to be quite nervous. He doesn't know her, and she doesn't know him. His nervousness combined with a lack of knowledge of his sexual partner could lead to premature ejaculation. Another factor that could lead to it is a lack of confidence. Any hobbyist who is new to the hobby, or lacks confidence in themselves, is susceptible to this problem.
The best way to overcome this psychological issue is to take time to get to know the escort. Make great use of foreplay. Be open about what you expect from the session, and don't make any assumptions. In general, if an escort is truly skilled, she will have the ability to get rid of the nervousness that the hobbyist has. There have been many times when I was nervous when meeting an escort for the first time, but after relaxing and talking with her, as well as her giving me a massage, this nervousness went away.
Phyiscal Causes
There a number of physical causes which could be at the root of premature ejaculation. Some of these include an infection of the prostate, injuries which have been sustained to the nervous system, or the side effects of medications you may be taking. Many of these issues are very serious, and if you think that your problem is physical rather than psychological, you should seek the help of a medical professional.
Treatments
However, there are a number of ways you can overcome the physical causes of premature ejaculation. First, you can purchase medications which allow you to overcome it, or you can also train yourself to avoid it. Some antidepressants, specifically SSRI antidepressants, have been shown to slow down the rate of ejaculation. Some of the products you will want to look for are sertraline, paroxetine, or fluoxetine. However, some of these products, most notably dapoxetine, have not been widely approved by medical professionals.
If you seek the help of a sex therapist, you will find that they can teach you a number of exercising which allow you to gain control over premature ejaculation. The most basic sexual technique is called the Start-Stop method. With this technique, the goal of the hobbyist is to get used to maintaining an erection for an extended period of time, and being able to come on command.
To use the Start-Stop technique, you will first want to start by masturbating, or "jacking off." Once you gain an erection, you will want to stop stimulating your penis, and wait until you begin to lose your erection. As you feel yourself going soft, start to stimulate yourself again.
If this is done over a period of a few weeks, you should find that you will be able to stimulate yourself for a longer period of time. Eventually you will be able to cum when you're ready, and not prematurely. Another tool that can help you fight premature ejaculation is nutritional supplements. In order for the supplement to be effect, it must have 5HTP, which is referred to as being closely related to serotonin. This treatment is recommended by respected doctors such as Dr. Ganong.
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