Preparing Your Place for a Provider
Offering your place instead of a hotel could easily loosen up the provider, which will make her feel better. But that doesn’t mean you don’t have to prepare your place for her arrival. Clean the house or at least make it a respectable area, especially the shower and bedroom, where the session will be most likely to happen. You may add some scented candles, but what is really important is to prepare a clean house so that the provider will be impressed and give you a great time. Always use new sheets when meeting with a provider, and change them after you’re done.
Once she arrives, make her as comfortable as possible. Offer something to drink and sit down on the couch and talk for a while. However, be careful about what you talk about. Never give out personal information, as they won’t even give out their real name anyway. When it comes to the services she will offer, be discreet as much as possible.
Learn the lingo of the escort industry so that you can use these words instead of being really explicit. A provider prefers those who are experienced hobbyists, and by learning these words, you will give an impression that you know what you are doing, and could already be an expert in the industry.
For payments or donations, most of the providers don’t want to receive the money right from your hand for fear that you might be a cop. Place your donation on a table inside an unmarked envelop. If the provider will not ask you outright for the donation, you can be sure that she is looking around to see if you have placed it somewhere. Most of the time, high end providers prefer that their payment not be handed to them directly.
Personal cleanliness is also important when you are in a session, so you have to provide her with the things that she needs while cleaning herself. Your shower should have all the supplies that she needs. Keep your cleaning materials to yourself, and give her something new to use instead. Part of it is for protection, but mostly you want to impress her with your hospitality. A provider is still a girl who wants to have a gentlemen treat her for the session. That way, you will have a provider who will feel safe and special with you, and she will be more likely to give you an excellent service.